Dear Future Brittany
Don't get lost in the petty things. Things are going to work out exactly how they are supposed to. If you focus too much on the annoyances of a situation, you cannot see the lesson that is being presented to you. It is not easy to see the lesson while you are in it. It gets easier, though, to see past the petty things once you set your mind to doing it.
Every situation has been planned out by God. Every little battle and large fight is intended to teach a lesson. Reflect on your day by journaling or praying. Reflect on each battle by writing down what the situation was, how you felt, how you reacted, and how you can change that reaction, if it was negative. Practice this over and over until you are able to see yourself outside of a situation.
You are an exceptional, brave woman. Look at all of the amazing things you have done with your life! You have gotten over so many obstacles, even when it felt the day would never end. Never tell yourself that you can't do something. Yes, you will need to work hard. You will need to keep trying over and over again. You will fail. You will cry and you will get mad. But then, when you least expect it, you will rise strong!
Every decision you have made has brought you to this point in your life. You might not like the outcome of a decision, but it has made you who you are today. You can look back and continue to live in the past and how you would have changed a situation, or, you can look ahead and see how you want to live in the future.
Live your life fearlessly and endlessly.